We suggest you turn to the Tao Teh Ching:
45. Extremes and Reversals Great completion is like deficiency. Its use does not 'corrupt'. Great filling is like being poured. Its use does not exhaust. Great straightforwardness is like being bent. Great skill is like clumsiness. Great distinction-debating is like shouting. Exercise conquers a chill. Rest conquers a fever. 'Clear' and 'quiet' are deemed as correct for the social world. -- tr. C. Hansen